zondag 22 januari 2012

Love-issues ♥

Help! Love-issues... 
Your love-life isn't always like you want it to be, isn't it. 
You start to ask yourself those questions: 'Does he still loves me?, Does he use me?, Am i the problem?,...'
Maybe I have here some useful questions you can ask yourself when you have problems in love relationships. 
      • Focus on how you feel when YOU are loving. Does loving someone feel good regardless if it's returned? Is your loving someone conditional on them loving you back? If so, why?
      • Do you feel loved when your partner isn't around? If not, why not? Do you accept yourself, appreciate your qualities?
      • Are you doing things for them, expecting something in return? What are you expecting? And have you told them what that is?
      • Have you talked to your partner about what things cause you to feel loved? (Don't get caught up in "if they loved me, they'd know", cause they don't.)
                         ~selfcreation 




 



 XOXO I have issues too ♥